Tuesday, October 8, 2013

Ambulance Ride



Matthew's birthday

Matthew at the wedding mentioned below.

Matthew has been admitted to MD Anderson with another small bowel obstruction.  Right now, he is in a holding pattern again, fluids and meds for pain.  This hospital admission was a bit more dramatic than usual.  I have included my Dad's play-by-play for you below.  *Warning*. Cancer humor can be dark, and for those that don't know him, he has a very dry sense of humor.  


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Monday started out well.  We had been in San Fransisco and Sacramento the previous 3 days for a wedding and to reconnect with some family members who also happened to live out there. We had a 10 AM flight out of the SFO airport to Bush Intercontinental in Houston with a connection in Denver. Traffic was light (we had stayed well south of SF itself and near the airport). The lines at the car rental return, the ticket check-in counter, and the security check point were all very short or non-existent. I probably oughta shoullda started suspecting that Life was setting us up.

We were now pretty early so we settled in at an eatery and used the smart phone to check the flight. 8:00 AM in the morning and it was already delayed an hour. But we only had 45 minutes between connections in Denver. So we rescheduled on a flight that wouldn’t leave Denver until about 7:30 pm. Of course, later that day while we were waiting in Denver, the 7:30 PM flight threw a delay of an hour so we didn’t leave until 8:30 MDT, 9:30 CST.

 All during the day Matthew was getting slowly worse – much discomfort in the gut. This happens now anyway whenever he has any gas, so we were concerned but not totally alarmed. Amanda said, “We don’t have to worry until he takes a pain pill”. Matthew is fully aware that most heavy duty narcotics stop the bowel contractions that move things along down there and usually just toughs it out. Well, he took a pain pill just before we took the flight back to Houston.

 Because of the rescheduling, we were scattered all over the plane on inside seats and couldn’t really talk to Matt during the flight. We landed, got off, and got about 200 feet down the concourse when Matthew started throwing up. I must say, he is a chip off the old block. We Haluska’s bazooka barf (projectile vomiting is the politically correct term, I suppose). And he did the family proud. Amanda and I exchanged looks – on the roller coaster again.  A few minutes later he had a second wave, and then a third. The third wave was about half bright red blood. The roller coaster had just taken a steep dive.

 Now, its midnight and the concourse is nearly deserted. The one airport employee we spotted took one look at the mess and disappeared to report it. No wheel chair in sight. So we pulled Matthew to his feet and started staggering towards the passenger pick-up place down by baggage claim. While we were trudging that way, I’m calling 911.

 “Do you need medical, fire, or police assistance?”

 “Medical.”

 “Please hold while I transfer you.”

 Great, calling for an ambulance at midnight and I get put on hold. But not long.

 “What is your emergency?”

 I try to keep calm, clear, and concise.

 “My son has stage 4 colon cancer and is vomiting blood. We need an ambulance. Bush International Airport, terminal A, passenger pickup’”

 Now I was hedging a little, because we were still trekking through the terminal, but I figured we could still beat them to the pick-up point.

 “Is the person conscious?”

 “Yes, he is vomiting blood.”

 “What is your location?”

 “Bush Continental Airport, terminal A, passenger pickup.”

 “What is the street address?”

 “Lady, I’m in terminal A of  Bush… Continental…. Airport… It doesn’t HAVE a street address.”

 “What are the nearest cross roads?”

 Now we are deep in the airport, about a mile from the nearest named public streets, and I don’t know the names of them anyway.

 “Lady, send an ambulance to BUSH… CONTENENTAL… AIRPORT… TERMINAL… A… PASSENGER…. PICK… UP…”

 “One moment please while I try to locate that”

 About a 20 second pause….

“I’m dispatching an ambulance to 2800 Airport Service Road Number 5.”

 Now keep in mind we are still trudging through the airport, dragging 4 carry on suitcases, a backpack, and my laptop bag.  She then starts telling me to lay Matthew on his side and not to give him any fluids, which, in fairness, is good first-aid for a person with a punctured lung. So I just humor her and say, “Right, yes, got it.”

 So we make it to passenger pick-up. About 7 to 10 minutes later, a HUGE fire truck pulls up, lights and sirens on, and proceeds to block all the traffic in the passenger pickup zone. I figured maybe they had sent that too just in case some heavy rescue equipment was needed for Stage 4 colon cancer. I went over and knocked on the door.

 “Are you looking for my son?”

 “Person vomiting and needing an ambulance?”

 “Yes.”

“Yep, that’s what we are here for.”

 “But I called for an AMBULANCE!”

 “I know, but we come first and then WE call the ambulance.”

 Now, in fairness, this guy was just following protocol and immediately called for the ambulance without any more encouragement. There was an EMS on the truck too, and he took Matthew’s blood pressure, etc. while we were waiting.

 Amanda and I had a quick discussion. Even with the blood, Matthew was probably not in any immediate life-threatening danger. So I left Amanda to go to the MD Anderson emergency room in the ambulance and left to take myself and Isaac home.  One last little tib-bit. We were parked in a remote lot, had to wait for the shuttle, were the last ones off a full bus, then had to scout around a bit for the car. Then the Groupon that Amanda had purchased ahead of time would not scan correctly at the unmanned exit gate.  Went over to the one manned booth and gave her the coupon. She said she couldn’t process it,  but she did go down the row of machines at the gate until she found one that worked. Yeah!

As I was pulling out of the park-and-fly lot, one more delay. I had to stop while Matthew’s ambulance went past.

 Next time I will play it this way:

 “What is your emergency?”

 “Fire! My son is on fire! Send a fire truck!”

 That way, maybe they will send an ambulance first.


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Thanks for all the thoughts and support. 


For those that prayed for Taryn today, her surgery went well.  


Keep those prayers coming! 

 


Monday, October 7, 2013

Prayer List Addition

A Matthew update will be coming soon....

Today, I would like to ask for prayers for a friend (shared with her permission).  One of my coworkers, a vibrant young lady named Taryn, was also diagnosed with colon cancer.   She is a recent graduate of the University of Oklahoma and just started teaching first grade.  She is scheduled for surgery tomorrow--Tuesday, October 8th.  I ask that those of you who pray for our much-loved Noodle, to add her to your list.

She is just at the beginning of this fight, but I know that she WILL fight.  She has already shown so much strength and grace in the last week. Taryn loves Katy Perry's song, Roar--to me it sends a message that she is a fighter!

 You held me down, but I got up (hey!)
Already brushing off the dust
You hear my voice, your hear that sound
Like thunder, gonna shake the ground
You held me down, but I got up
Get ready 'cause I had enough
I see it all, I see it now

I got the eye of the tiger, the fire
Dancing through the fire
'Cause I am a champion, and you're gonna hear me roar
Louder, louder than a lion
'Cause I am a champion, and you're gonna hear me roar!


Thanks in advance for the extra thoughts and prayers for Taryn!




Tuesday, October 1, 2013

Thirty-five

That's right,  Matthew tuned 35 today!  The fact that he has seen 3 birthdays since his diagnosis is a miracle worth celebrating.  He was released from the hospital last Friday, so he is feeling better.  I actually didn't get to talk to him today--when I called he was out and about and didn't answer his phone.  Don't party too hard!  Join me in wishing a great big Happy Birthday to the Fighting Noodle!

Wednesday, September 25, 2013

Flashback and the Present

Ok--I promised a more thorough update, but life is getting the better of me, and time is getting away from me.  

Flashback....
So, let me back up a bit to the weekend of September 14-15.  Matthew and Dad came up to Dallas for a visit.  The brought Jenny some painting of Truffala Trees that Matthew had painted for her classroom (Dr. Suess and Lorax theme).  I will try to get her to take some pictures so I can post them.

They also brought me a present.  I have been wanting one of those Joy yard signs for Christmas for years.  Well--Matthew and Dad made one for me.  This is not the one they made (it is in the garage), but it looks like this, and I will take a picture when I put it up in my yard!


They got to watch Evan play baseball, and play on the playground with the girls. (Look at Claire's shirt)


















We were really glad they got to come.  Matthew returned home in pretty good spirits, but a couple days later started having difficulty with abdominal pain. As stated in the previous post DejaVu--Matthew was admitted to the hospital for a blockage in his small intestine.

Fast forward a week to today.  Matthew has had a few setbacks--xrays found extended bowel loops.  Which basically means the blockage was putting pressure on the intestine.  The danger of this is rupture.  He has been off of all food and fluids...has had to be IV only.  He has been in quite a bit of pain.  Fortunately, it seems like he may have turned a corner.  The recent xrays showed that the blockage looks better, and he has been allowed to have clear fluids.  Jennifer spoke with him last night, and heard that he has lost 12 pounds!  The reports from today are that he has been in better spirits and has much lower pain levels.  This is good news!

I will try really hard to do short updates even if I don't have time to make it fancy!  Thanks for all of the continued thoughts and prayers. 

Wednesday, September 18, 2013

Deja Vu

I will give a more thorough update of all the news soon---hopefully tomorrow.   But, for now, a few quick, but necessary updates.

Matthew went in for his quarterly scans.  He has been having some abdominal pain.  The good news is that all the tumors have gotten smaller (don't know details right now).

The déjà vu part, is when they went for the appt they had to admit Matthew for another intestinal blockage.  It took a while to get him a bed, but he was finally admitted this evening.  He is on fluids, and pain meds.  He is sleping.  Right now, I  am assuming the course of action will be similar to the previous times.  Fluids and rest and wait.  They are saying no cell phones. If you need to you can call, 713-792-2121.  Then ask for room 1029.  

As always, prayers are great! 

Thursday, June 20, 2013

Two Years...Belated

So, I am like a month late here, and I apologize.  The end of school was kind of crazy.  Not related to Matthew, but congratulations to Jennifer, for landing her first teaching job!  She will be teaching first grade right down the road from me at Richardson Terrace Elementary.

May 17th was two years since Matthew's diagnosis.  The fight continues on, and Matthew continues to beat the odds.  When I last posted, his port had been removed due to infection.  After some recovery time he had his port reinserted and resumed chemo.  His latest checkup showed that one of the tumors did shrink a bit, which is great considering the fact that he missed a couple of chemo treatments.  He had another bowel obstruction scare, which put him back in the hospital for a couple of days, but it resolved  on its own again (and much faster than last time).  Overall he is doing pretty well.  Emily and Jennifer just visited and spent some time with him.

Cancer is horrible, and I wouldn't wish it on anybody.  However, horrible situations allow for people's kindness and good nature to come through....here is a wonderful example.
Matthew enjoys playing a video game called Team Fortress 2. Jeffrey contracted the company, Valve, regarding Matthew.  In return, the wonderful people at Valve sent Matthew an avatar that is personalized with Matthew's *signature* leather jacket, and a kind note.

A big shout out goes to the wonderful people that work at Valve that took their time to make Matthew's day (maybe even year).  I know that this made him very happy.  Also, thanks to Jeffrey for making this happen, of everything that you could do for your brother, this was the perfect thing....

Saturday, April 13, 2013

Attention Please

*Clears throat*. Your attention please...I have an announcement.  Matthew is home!  That is all.

Thank you for everything.