Monday, March 27, 2017

3 Years--Gifts

Matthew left us three years ago today.  Matthew has given me many gifts throughout the years, but through his battle with colon cancer, he may have given me the biggest gift of all.

Matthew was diagnosed with Colon Cancer in May of 2011.  He was 32 years old at the time.  Since I was older, my doctor recommended a colonoscopy ASAP.  So I had one in June of 2011.  It came back clear, and I was told to return in 5 years.  Five years have passed, as time does, and I thought about putting off my colonoscopy because--well they aren't the most fun.  However, I went ahead and got it out of the way thinking that the doctor would say it was all clear, come back in 5 years.

This time however, the doctor found several polyps that were precancerous.  For those that don't know, colon cancer can take about 10 years to develop from polyps.  I am 40, and screenings don't usually start until 50.  If it hadn't been for Matthew, my polyps most likely would not have been discovered until they had already become cancerous.  So although it means more frequent colonoscopies, I am so very grateful for the gift Matthew gave me.

I say again, have your colonoscopies done!!  The temporary discomfort is so worth it.

Our friend Taryn has been having a very rough time of it lately.  She has been struggling with a lot of pain, and frequent hospitalizations.  Please keep her and her family in your prayers.  She desperately just wants to be home with her dogs and husband!


As I write this post, I still feel the same way I did two years ago in my blog post.

http://thefightingnoodle.blogspot.com/2015/03/one-year.html


Matthew had these attributes, Taryn has these attributes.  May we all strive to have a Kind Heart, Fierce Mind, and Brave Spirit.  

Matthew--you were loved and we miss you.   Thank you for all of your gifts!